的信息？你会尽可能地找到原因，并焦虑地要把事情掰正。
然而，如果你所犯下的错误仅仅是做了你自己并且还想煞费苦心地改变它，这并不容易。
总会有一些人，他们就是不喜欢你的样子，不喜欢你说话、微笑的方式。这些跟你的个性、是否做了错事或是有什么缺点都没有关系。往往是你最好的特质招来了人的厌烦。
有些人就是会对那些没招惹他的人生气，对那些比他好的人产生敌意。他们永远不会原谅你，而且还会期待着你受到惩罚。
如果下次你与这样的人发生口角，别为此郁闷，尽可能地逃走吧，并且别忘提醒自己，你不是那个有问题的人。
One of the best things in life is the offering of good pany： ready laughter； easy camaraderie and； whenever needed； an ear to listen； a shoulder to cry on； a hand to hold。
True friendship； worth its weight in gold； is easy to define in that it’s perfectly balanced； unaffected by privilege or position； both parties contributing to the best of their ability；and no one ever taking advantage。
The desire for friendship as an insurance against loneliness and isolation like any basic need makes us vulnerable； open to exploitation by those who use the cloak of friendship to hide a host of less honourable intentions。
Reasonably harmless are the kind who are friendly only when they stand to gain from it。 Worse are those who； eaten by envy and resentment； raise themselves by lowering another； trample on one who extends a helping hand； gain control exerting insidious pressure； and delight in someone else’s degradation。
Such people often masquerade as friends； but； really； they are enemies out to destroy： Extremely dangerous – and best avoided。
So watch out for the signs： beware false friends； whilst at the same time doubling your appreciation of those who prove themselves true。
I know of a young family。 The woman doesn’t believe in marriage。 Her father was a difficult； abusive man； her mother brow…beaten； down…trodden。 Determined not to risk ending up like her； she retains control of home and children。
Her partner is a good family man。 He would dearly lik